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Fire with water can create problems unless you search for a common ground on which to meet. Cancer is very sensitive so is often hurt by Aries's frank, abrupt and even abrasive ways. Aries does not appreciate Cancer's sentimentality and emotional mood swings. Both are cardinal signs as well meaning both may be unwilling to let the other get his/her way making mutual decisions difficult.
CANCER WOMAN with ARIES MAN
Initially he can be like her knight in shining armour. He may find her a bit clingy but she is supportive of him and needs to be recognised emotionally to keep a balance. Her cooking and sexual expertise will send him into ecstasy. She will stick with him, wether he will stick with her is another thing. Cancer woman tend to desire a quiet and restful existence this could drive Aries to frustration as he is always on the go. A strong sex drive and an aggressive attitude to love making is fun but the Cancer woman needs lots attention and romance swell. The Aries man must be more sensitive to her needs for things to work. His direct approach is at odds with the Cancer's more complex view of life.
ARIES WOMAN with CANCER MAN
He is lovable but his affections are not for her. The Aries outbursts send him into sudden withdraw. Fire plus water equals steam! Cancer males hide their feelings under a tough crab like shell, while the Aries female is demonstrative with her emotions. He may also want to protect her whom the Aries female has no need for and this could upset Cancer. In sexual matters Cancer is serious and likes to take the lead. But he believes a lady should remain so in and out of bed so the direct approach of his Aries partner could offend or in the bedroom even shock him! He loves children and may want to settle down which might not be on the mind of Miss independent.
Cancer has a super sensitive nature and need lots of reassurances about themselves and the relationship and Aries although coming across as often fiery also needs lots of attention and " I love you"s". Both need to be loved all the time! This could be demanding on the relationship.
Sexually Cancer sizzles beneath the sheets and is usually skilled in the art of lovemaking. Aries is very enthusiastic in the bedroom and will appreciate Cancers depth of feeling if they are not too busy enjoying themselves. If ignored Cancers can become moody and withdrawn, so Aries needs to be more understanding of Cancers feelings and this can be asking a lot.
Some Cancer men have a hard time accepting their feminine side.
They try to hide their emotional and intuitive side away. What they really need is to express themselves more and sometimes it is up to their partner to help bring this about.
Another difference between these two signs is the love of security and stability by Cancer whereas Aries often sends large periods of their lives moving around and remain uncommitted to people, places and relationships often thinking there is something better just around the corner.
