Scorpio Female with Aquarius Male
When Scorpio and Aquarius come together, it mingles different needs and different philosophies. Scorpio has an emotional intensity with which they face life. Aquarius has an unusual, idealistic world view. When Scorpio may be more introverted and prefer to be alone with their lover, Aquarius enjoys a night out with friends. They may appear to have few common interests, but these two are both possessed of strong willpower; when they set this force to a common goal, they are assured of success.
Both Scorpio and Aquarius can be uncompliant and opinionated. They like things to go as they dictate, with no questions asked. Scorpio is probing, delves deeply into the hidden meaning of things. Aquarius is modern and does not enjoy detail. Scorpio will find Aquarius exciting, yet may feel frustrated trying to penetrate this revolutionary's mind. Aquarius will not appreciate the possessiveness of a stinging Scorpion or the amount of attention they require, but will find the devotion Scorpio provides to be a great support.
Mr Aquarius has a strong dislike of drama or trauma in any guise and the intense emotional scenes that a re so much a part of Miss Scorpio's life could leave him completely cold. He may not argue with you but will begin to wonder whether you are unbalanced or not. As a Scorpio you tend to have a strong materialistic view of life which could be at odds with your partner because he values people not objects. Jealousy is deeply ingrained in most Scorpios, and his total lack of this emotion could make her feel that his love for is inadequate.
Scorpio is ruled by the Planets Mars and Pluto, and Aquarius is ruled by Saturn and Uranus. Mars is a radical, belligerent, aggressive and courageous masculine energy,and Pluto enlightens these impulses and adds a rebirthing, cyclical quality. Saturn is a cool, contained energy, and Uranus is about all things different and unusual. Mars is emotional, reacting without thinking things through; such is the nature of Scorpio. For Aquarius, Saturn is about hard work and discipline to achieve goals while Uranus determines thinking ahead. Scorpio will teach Aquarius about life based on emotional impulses and what it means to peak behind the surface. Aquarius can teach Scorpio to be more aloof, to detach themselves from uncontrollable situations and to re-evaluate their goals if they are off course.
Scorpio is a Water Sign and Aquarius is an Air Sign. Aquarius moves through life with pure inventive exploration, while Scorpio is more analytical. Scorpio looks for purpose and Aquarius seeks the stimulating. These partners may find it difficult to understand the other's origin of thought. This pair may have confrontations if Scorpio is too possessive or if Aquarius seems too cool and flippant and denies Scorpio emotional reassurance. Both partners need to learn that they view the world in different ways and they should celebrate and laugh at their differences. Scorpio's sex drive is likely to be more demanding than his, so problems could crop up in this area of their life sooner or later. At times you may even feel unloved or neglected. When you accuse him of this he will find it exhausting and irritating.
Scorpio and Aquarius are both Fixed Signs. Both can be rigid, opinionated and unyielding. Both partners tend to persist when labouring toward a goal. If they have a plan, they'll stick to it until their efforts are rewarded. Once they have made up their minds that they are good mates for each other, they will never be discouraged from maintaining the relationship. But if they have differing ideas, they may find that the Scorpion is the more tenacious, more dogmatic partner who is not beyond emotional manipulation of a loved one. If they each believe in the value of the relationship, they will be able to overcome differences.
The best aspect of the Scorpio-Aquarius relationship is the capacity for success in their synergy. Both Signs have very powerful personalities, so neither will openly dominate the other. Once they can work out their differences, come together and agree on their individual roles within the team, the fruits of this relationship can be fulfilling.